In a committed (ENM) relationship with my lovely asexual wife and life partner, so I play alone. Very much GGG and open to exploring kinks & fantasies, while also really enjoying plain ole vanilla (a little chocolate syrup, whipped cream and a cherry don't hurt though!). Looking for casual, fun, dating, NSA, and FWB relationships. Open to single women, women who play alone, and different dynamics with the right couple (hotwife, cuck, vixen, MFM, FFM, FMF). Really enjoy the "build up", flirting and foreplay. ONS aren't out of the question (especially traveling), but I also like the chemistry, trust, safety and ability to explore boundaries that comes with FWB's or longer term partners. Clean, safe, mature, well dressed, well groomed, professional, salt & pepper, no drama, and all-around great guy who can hold a conversation, give a great massage, tease you to the edge of cumming until you forget your name, and explore whatever vanilla or kinky things you desire. Prefer to be discreet. Respectful of boundaries. Happily married and uninterested in changing anyone's situation. Country boy turned city slicker. Enjoy fine dining and pizza and wings. Can hold my own around a table of execs or around the campfire at hunt camp. Always up for most things involving great food, great drinks and/or time spent outdoors. Whiskey/bourbon is my poison of choice. Enjoy wine. Beer makes me feel like shit. If you name it, I'm probably into it, or at least up for finding out. Very few hard limits, but kink isn't a necessity either...sex is great in all forms. On the kink side, I particularly enjoy orgasm control/teasing/edging/denial, light bondage and exploring my dominant side. Wanting to explore being a bull much more. Really enjoy mature women who know what they want...lowkey have a thing for grey hair. Also into being the older, mature dominant guy for a younger woman or couple. And don't get me wrong, I absolutely dig the mid 30's to mid 40's milfs that are more my age. Like I said, there's not much I'm not into. :7 Discreet until we connect, but face photos and private photos can be unlocked if you ask. If you can't message, hit me with a flirt and hotlist and I'll send a message your way Busy husband and dad, so I'm picky about who I spend my limited time with. Charlotte is home. Occasionally travel for work so I might pop up in a different city, and often spend time around Topsail, Asheville and SW Virginia.

My Ideal Person Adventurous single or coupled woman who enjoys a massage, oral and cumming a lot. Also open to couples for the right dynamic (see above). No drama, no strings. Friends and built trust can be a benefit. Good times had by all, always!