Old Profile, will be updating shortly... [COLOR darkred][B]Please Note:[/B][/COLOR] [COLOR red]If you send us a message that is only one line and you have a 'simple' profile, I probably will not respond. If you are a single male, I probably will not respond. If you ACT like a man that is hiding something, I probably will not respond. [/COLOR][COLOR indigo]Best way to get a response is to READ our profile. Send an honest message based on what you've read or share a bit about yourself. Better yet let your WIFE write the message/email!!!![/COLOR] [B]Now about us:[/B] Professional stable couple (51 & 52) of 31+ yrs (& still going strong) looking to meet Drama FREE friends & possible playmates. Discretion is a must due to our professional lives, so personal info sharing will only be done once we develop a comfort level with another couple. For us it is Friendship First!!! We are not looking to jump into bed right away with anyone & not wanting to hop in & out of bed with everyone. We are truly looking to develop a friendship with another cpl who has similar interests to us (so PLEASE READ OUR PROFILE & Q&A) with the intent of becoming sexual playmates when the right cpl comes along. For this rea we are not in any 'rush', so there is no pressure here. HOWEVER we [B]ARE[/B] honestly looking for a friendship/playmate relationship so if you are just 'browsing' and NOT serious please don't waste our time. We only play & socialize as a couple [B]together[/B] with couples. The women are always allowed to play alone together however (if they choose). She is bi leaning heavily towards women, so we are only looking for couples with bi women please. He is bi-curious, however, if you are a straight male we are very respectful of boundaries - just don't have performance anxiety with another man in the room please. We practice safe sex [B]ONLY[/B] (condoms are a must). FYI: The female half of our couple wrote this profile and [B]will [/B]be the one to hotlist or send flirts & most likely will be the one to respond to emails unless otherwise stated. If I hotlisted you I may have just looked at your photos. If I flirted with you I [U][B]HAVE[/B][/U] read your profile. We both read all emails too & from everyone. I (the female half) may set the boundaries but we make [B]All[/B] decisions as a team. [U]Please read our 'ideal per' before messaging us!!![/U] A bit more about us on a peral level (in case you don't get to our other Q&A) [B]Both[/B] [U]Interests:[/U] Comedy clubs, theme parks (on cooler days), relaxed indoor environments like museums or a quite restaurant, hanging out by the pool, maybe playing a card/board game, stimulating conversation, mentally as well as sexually. Things relating to metaphysics, philosophy, or self improvement are par for the course with us, we can talk about every day things like work & life as well as long as there is a depth to the conversation at times also. We are non-smokers & not partiers. We don't drink much but an occasional cocktail is ok to relax. [B]Both[/B] [U]Perality:[/U] Professional yet down to earth, honest, friendly, open minded, intellectual (but not nerdy or snobs about it) [U]Stats:[/U] Caucasian, professional clean appearance, good peral hygiene, DD&D Free [B]Him[/B] [U]Hobbies:[/U] football, outdoors, deep sea fishing, relaxing at home [U]Stats:[/U] 6'2" short black hair, nicely groomed goatee, broad chest, average weight [U]Fun Fact[/U] He has been to more than 20 different countries. [B]Her:[/B] [U]Hobbies[/U] craft artisan, reading, writing [U]Stats:[/U] 5'2" 195 lbs, long straight red hair, BBW measurements 50-40-48 - bust size 40GG [B](if large women are an issue for you please move along)[/B] [U]Fun Fact[/U] She is a hypnothe. Side Note: Our ren are Sr.HS (17) & College (19) and very independent leaving us to be more flexible with our peral time.[U][/U]

My Ideal Person

Single Men/Men who play without partners, Or pushy and/or aggressive couples Please Move Along!!!!

Here are a cpl more things to help make this easy for everyone:
We 'date' first! If you don't want to develop a relationship with us we aren't interested in playing with you.
We are Not interested in dominant or egotistical men who need to be in control. Confidence is fine - dominant arrogance is NOT.
We are Not interested in any master/slave situation.
NO pain or rough stuff!!!

DD&D Free!!! Please be secure in your relationship. We are & don't want to deal with drama.

Ideally we would like to find a couple who is interested in developing a friendship with the intent of it turning it into a friendship/playmate situation. A couple with similar interests (please read our profile) & personality traits to us are important since we are looking to develop a friendship first.

A Bi couple would be ideal. At the very least the female half MUST be bi. The male can be straight as long as he can present with another male in the room or be ok just watching.

Personality:
Professional yet down to earth, Honest, Friendly, Open Minded, Intellectual (but not nerdy or snobs about it)
Appearance:
Physical attraction is less important, but would be more so for the playtime side of things. We are Not Ken & Barbie & are not looking for Ken & Barbie (Curves are Great!!!), however we do feel there has to be some physical chemistry between everyone for any 'playtime'.

Preferences (again not as important as clicking on an interest/intellectual level)
These are our 'female halves' preferences as the male half is open to whatever she chooses.
Her:
A beautiful smile and nice eyes are always a plus. Average/Curvy to Thicker/Larger women are more appealing to both of us. I am more attracted to darker hair than lighter but not a deal breaker. Large breasts are also great but not a deal breaker.
Him:
Male features are not that important to me as I am more into women. A little extra girth would be a bonus for playtime.
Both:
Clean appearance, Good personal Hygiene, Non-smokers, DD&D free - Ethnicity is NOT important

For playmates She MUST be Bi (willing to give & receive), it would be great if he were bi or bi curious as well but at the very least not phobic about it. If you are a bi male, our male side has not explored this side yet but is open, so you would have to be gentle/patient about it.

The main rules we have are:
The women Always take the lead & make the decisions as to how fast/far things go & must be in agreement between each other.

Men must Never have expectations about what will happen sexually & be ok with whatever limitations the women agree on.

All other personal boundaries are to be openly shared up front, complied with at all times & discussed regularly for changes to occur as the relationship develops & grows.

So if you like our profile & want to know more about us, just email us. I don't bite... most of the time anyway... Don't know what to say? Share an interesting fact about yourselves (not related to sex). Or anything about yourself that isn't just about sex.

Side Note: Please understand, because our children are older & we are past the 'young child' stage in our lives, we ask, if you are not, that you have flexible child care arrangements as we are not open to entertaining young children (even when getting together as just friends).

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Too many to list

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Honest Communication

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really there are a few that are nice to look at but prefer
to fantasize about more tangible options.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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