How much do you want to know before the red flags show and we push each other away. I've put in lots of work on recovery and healing not to throw it all away on some low hanging fruit. If your healthy, your horny, there's nothing wrong with that, but who we decide to sleep with is our decision all the way. Most of the time I see red flags, and someone like minded will see the same, I'm willing to create boundaries together, and a plan to maintain being healthy individually and as a couple or friends. Emotional maturity is a must if a relationship is desired but if you want a ONS, I can wait off on being stimulated for many more ways than the primitive man.