I'm here to have fun....no drama or trauma wanted. I am married and my wife will have full knowledge of any goings on. I am always respectful, clean and safe (both physically and mentally and will expect the same) I am incredibly open and honest and love to discuss all aspects of fun and or sex :) I don't smoke, drink a little socially, and am 420 friendly, but rarely partake myself. I am discreet in public...I understand that we all have professional and social lives that don't always understand the fun that can be had between friends ;) And yes, I am looking for friends as well as FWB. I am intelligent and can hold my own in any kind of conversation, have a dry wit and love to laugh and make others laugh too. I am good with my hands (you can interpret that any way you like) and my mental state resides in the gutter....well, below the gutter really......I like to look up at the people in the gutter and see that they are having a good time...then invite them down to the next level ;) "Come on down...it's dark and wet here.....you'll like it." Some other details about me... I have a few extra pounds but carry them very well. Fit and strong, I may not be the sporty type, but I own a large piece of property that keeps me moving and active. I'm 5'7", hairy chest but keep things lower manscaped. I have that sparkle in my eye that will make you smile and then think....oh wait, he's up to something. I am also an exhibitionist and love to have others watch and do some watching myself. If you and your partner (M/F F/F) are looking for an audience, or even a camera man....I may be able to help out ;) I am also curious about exploring a few kinks, tho this is not necessary if it's not your thing. Things that I would like to explore are; D/s play (I am a very dominant perality and not looking to switch) Rope play Bondage Spanking Role play and who knows what else.....like I said, looking to explore. I draw the line at water sports and scat. (not interested) Life is short and should be enjoyed!

My Ideal Person female friends with benefits. Can also be couples (FF or MF) where the lady is allowed to play either in view or alone. I am also all for doubling up (or more) on a lady although I am not bi or even bi curious, "Crossing swords" is not out of the question.... I'm not a prude!!!
Group play is also on the yes list...but I will be focusing all of my attention on the female participants.

I am not looking to enable anyone to "sneak" around on their partners. If you are looking for a friend who will hide in the closet if your significant other is close....look elsewhere.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Chris Rea, Jimmy Buffett, Van Halen, Roots Roundup, Sigue
Sigue Sputnik

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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