I am about 6 feet tall 200lbs with broad shoulders, blue eyes and short brunette hair with gray coming in. I live and work in the silicon valley area (Los Gatos Mtns and Santa Clara). I have been working in high tech since 1989. I'm seeking a FWB that is okay with the fact that I am married but have a full time / permanent pass from my wife. Our agreement is one where I can do what I want as long as I stick to a few simple rules which can best be summarized as being a respectful human-- sort of hard to argue with that. Typically I am more dominate than submissive, but if you want to give the orders I'll give it a try. Vasectomy safe and prefer full contact with out any barriers. I am not a big sports fan but I do enjoy motorsports related things. My free time is spent doing things around the house along the lines of DIY projects. I also enjoy my motorcycle and the sense of freedom it provides.

My Ideal Person Ethically non-monogomous, I am on WetriXXX Dating seeking a FWB partner that's interested typical adult fun on an ongoing basis. This will be someone that is also interested in a secondary relationship, or at least not expecting a primary relationship. Someone that is down for meeting when we can but will not get weird if timing dictates patience. I cannot host in my home but can figure something out. Ideally we would meet for a weekly or bi-weekly rendevous. I'm not looking to change your or my primary relationship situation therefore a lover will not be expecting that.